away but not gone

For a month I've been unable to put up any of my quotidian pictures because no internet access and life's difficulties.

But there's been travels and pictures galore, slowly being uploaded.

Saadia and Swati, who can't be bothered to write to me, will now know my whereabouts (of the last month anyway).

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